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Customers Vs. Christians


For the past few days I have been considering something that has been bothering me for quite a while. I often read about the subversive nature of Christianity in the gospels and how a relationship with Christ is to transform the way we approach life, ministry, and one another but sometimes this is a far cry from what I see expressed in the modern church. We are to be a place where people come to connect with God in a community where the scriptures guide the way toward destiny but some how it appears as though many people come with a marketplace mentality where the congregants are "customers" and, as the old saying goes, "the customer is always right".

This type of consumer based Christianity can prevent people from truly experiencing the new life that can be ours in Christ because the purpose of the church then becomes to make us happy, meet our needs, pay our bills, inspire us to have better lives, give us stock tips, provide free daycare for our children, have great gourmet coffee for free, and never (and I mean NEVER) make us feel like we didn't receive the very best service possible. While these may be great business practices they are not necessarily biblical principles concerning the church. While "the customer is never wrong" the congregant is not a customer and due to our propensity to sin the congregant (you and I) may very well be wrong from time to time. That is why we need the Savior and the purifying work of the Holy Spirit. We can be wrong and thus stand in need of correction through the Word of God; both clergy and congregants must realize this if we are to move into the fullness of new life in Christ.

What can we do? Well, a good start is to truly surrender to the cause of Christ rather than our own selfish desires. After all, that's what it means to make Jesus LORD of your life. If He is LORD, by default you are not. Instead of coming to church focusing on how the church can serve us, let us begin to look at the church as a place that God desires to meet with us, communicate His Word to us, and allow us to share our lives, energy, expertise, and resources to bless others. From this perspective we are no longer the customers seeking to be pleased by the church and church leaders but rather we become followers of Christ seeking to be the greatest that we can be and according to Jesus "the greatest among you shall be your servant." (Matthew 23:11) So let's stop acting like customers and start acting like Christians.
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Don't be "that guy"!


Have you ever seen "that guy"? You know that guy who walks into the bathroom and forgets to wash his hands. I saw "that guy" today when I was out finishing up my Christmas shopping. I was standing at the sink and here he goes walking right out the door. As I walked to my car I began to wonder why he wouldn't take a moment to stop to wash his hands when the water, soap, and sink were already paid for. Here are my theories...

1.) Maybe he wasn't taught that it was important.
2.) Maybe he didn't think anyone saw so it didn't matter.
3.) Maybe he thought that this was only a vital principle for children and he had out grown the practice.

One of these may have been the reason or maybe in the holiday hustle and bustle he just forgot. Either way, I believe that it bears a strong resemblance to how some people will walk through another Christmas season and not even consider how they may need to be cleansed. Cleansed of what, you ask? Cleansed of past sins, disappointments, discouragements, mistakes, missed marks, missed opportunities. Many are in need of an internal, emotional & spiritual cleanse and there is one who is able to provide the cleansing we so desperately need (Jesus) yet how many times have you seen people walk right past Him just like "that guy" does the sink? I pray that this Christmas would be a time where we make the most of the opportunity to be cleansed of our past so that we may clearly see our way into our divinely appointed future. It's about to be the beginning of a brand new year, will you allow Jesus to wash you clean so that you can live a new life now or will you walk right past Him acting as if He's not there or you just don't need Him? The choice is yours but please, PLEASE don't be "that guy". Accept Jesus today :)

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Me, Muscle Strain & Sin


I always strive to see the hand of God in everyday life. I try to see Him in the Starbucks, over the internet, and in the weather. With such being the case God gives me unusual inspiration through my usual experiences. This week was no different. As I was working out a few days ago I felt a strain in my back and chest. I'm not exactly "the Rock" (yet) but I work out enough to know that pain is part of the process so I stretched and took a day off to rest. Two days later I was back under the weight bar and feeling more exhausted than usual but fought to finish my workout anyway. Again, "no pain, no gain" right? WRONG! At least it was this time. When I completed my workout I recognized that I had strained a muscle in the previous workout and going through with this workout as if nothing was wrong actually made the problem worse. I could try to walk it off and act like I didn't feel it but something in my chest (the pain) said that I was wrong. This time I had to pause and acknowledge the issue so that I could recover. I believe such is also the case with sin.

All of us have areas of our lives where we have tried to press on as if nothing is wrong but in our chest we know we took a hit. We can feel the strain, we can feel the pressure and the more we try to go about our daily business acting like nothing is wrong the worse the problem becomes. I have chosen to take a break from the weights for a week or two because that is what's necessary for this muscle strain to heal but what is needed to heal a heart of sin? If you have been feeling the strain of sin on your heart or in your mind I'd like to direct your attention to one of my favorite scriptures; 1 John 1:9 which says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." Just like all I need to heal this strain is to lay on the couch and relax all you have to do to heal the strain of your sin is to confess and reflect. Confess to the God who already knows what you have done and reflect on the steps that got you to those bad decisions so that you can avoid them the next go round.

As for me, I'll stretch a little better next time before a workout. The pain of a muscle strain is too much to deal with when I know it can be prevented. How about you? What could you do to avoid the pain of sinful decisions? You may need a stretch of your own...a stretch for new friends, a stretch away from negative influences, a stretch toward reading the Bible more or getting more out of church. What ever your stretch may be to avoid the strain of sin in your life, trust me when I tell you that it's a lot better than sitting down out of the game waiting to recover. Consider, confess, and continue to stretch!
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Can you hear me now?


For the last couple of weeks I've been doing a study series concerning "calling". I'm sure that you have wondered from time to time why you are here and what is your life's purpose. All of us do; because as we begin to live a new life in Christ there is something on the inside of us calling us to a higher level of living than we had thought possible before. There is something telling us that we're here for more than what Pastor Ed Young calls, "Procreation and Recreation". But the question then remains, "How do I know what I'm here to do?" For many of us the answer to this question can be difficult to find but as you search for your purpose let me share with you a few ways that God helped me to discover mine.

1.) What bothers you?

Having excepted Christ in my teenage years, I did not grow up in the church. Whether this was a blessing or not, I'll let you decide but it gave me a unique perspective on things at a young age. When I came to church it was not necessarily to be entertained but rather to get a deeper understanding of this Jesus that had changed my life. With that being said, it irritated me any time I would listen to preachers who said a lot while saying a little, if you know what I mean. In other words, it bothered me (and still does to this day) when I would listen to people preach personal opinion or try to go so deep where you can't understand a word that they're saying. This irritant caused me to begin to try to teach in a way that everyone could understand and draw conclusions as to how they could apply the Bible to their daily lives. I believe that God was allowing me to see different styles and practices of teaching that were effective and/ or ineffective because the calling to teach was resident within me so I would have to learn every day how to reach people. Now that's me, but what about you? What bothers you? Do you hate seeing children not being cared for? Does it bother you that people are forgotten in nursing homes, hospitals or prisons? What bothers you? That may be an indication of your calling.

2.) What burden's you? What do you dream about?
As I discuss, "dreaming" I'm not necessarily referring to that frequently which crosses your mind while you're sleeping because I believe that sometimes what frequently crosses your mind while you're awake could also be an indication of your calling. I was asked by a person a while back about how one knows when they are called to ministry. I try to tread softly on this one because I never what to feel as though I called a person as opposed to the Spirit of God calling them so I told them, "If you feel as though there is nothing more that you would like to do than share God's Word with people, if nothing would bring you greater joy than to tell people what God has said in the Word than you may be experiencing a call to preach". This may seem somewhat extreme but what I wanted them to understand is that there is something for all of us to do and I don't believe that we are to pursue it halfheartedly so that thing must be the central focus of our efforts for Christ. In my own personal life I enjoy sharing the Word so much that I get excited just thinking about any opportunity to speak to people concerning the Word and I try to use any medium available to do so whether it be live and in person, typed in a blog, hosted on youtube, or posted on Facebook or Twitter. What I'm saying is that your calling should leak out of every pore.

If it is to bless children you'll find yourself wanting to help out in the children's ministry, volunteer with the sports programs, or maybe tutor children in a local school. If it is to write music you'll find yourself writing on napkins in restaurants, typing in the notepad in your phone or pecking away at your ipad every time you receive an inspiration. Whatever your calling is I believe God will plant it so deeply into the core of your being that it will leak out even when you don't want it to. Even when your over extended and tired your calling will call to you because there is something that God made you to do and you only have one life time to get it done. What do you dream about? That may be an indication of your calling.

3.) What have you been blessed with? What comes spiritual for you?
Notice that I didn't say what comes naturally for you or what comes easily for you because both of those things can be deceiving. The question is not what comes naturally but what comes spiritually? What gifts came into your life AFTER you excepted Christ? In my case it was the ability to speak publicly without losing my mind. You may think that "losing my mind" was never an option but that's because you weren't with me in my Intro to Theater class when I was in high school. I almost failed this class voluntarily because I was afraid to make a presentation in front of the class. I pushed it until it was almost the end of the year and there was no way around it and then I muddled my way through it for a passing grade. This was in stark contrast to a few years later when I had excepted Christ and was beginning to walk toward what God made me to be (a Christian Communicator and/or preacher; depending on your context) when I leap at the opportunity to do so. Come to think about it, the fact that I view it as an "opportunity" is an indication of the tremendous change in my perspective. What happened? Christ changed me and opened my eyes so that I could see what I was made to be and as a result speaking about Him came spiritually for me. What about you? What comes spiritually for you? Is there anything that you may not have necessarily been trained for but that you can do as well as those who have? I would encourage you to do as the Apostle told Timothy when he asked him to "Fan into flame the gift that was inside him..." This is important because the gift is shared spiritually but you have to work to improve your proficiency in operating it. For me this required, and still requires, the constant reading of books and articles, making the most of every opportunity to exercise the gifts, attending an undergraduate program that would help sharpen my skills and a masters level program that would help to broaden my perspective. Additional steps are important because your calling is so important to the lives of those that it will impact that you have to demonstrate a level of seriousness that shows that you will not try to accomplish your purpose and fulfil your life's assignment with a lazy or lackadaisical demeanor. It's too important for that.

So as you consider your life's calling think about what bothers you, what burden's you and what God has blessed you with the gifts to do. As you think and pray about these things you'll be well on your way to discovering you're divine destiny and connecting with you're life's calling. Can you hear it now?!
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"I just want to be successful"


This morning I had an opportunity to speak to the honors students at a middle school in the area. As I considered what to present to them that could possibly cut past all of their distractions and ignite a desire in them to achieve great things within the time frame of ten minutes I was reminded of a popular song that many of them recognized. I know that I'm a preacher so this may come as a surprise but I'm not talking about "Pass me not oh blessed Savior." I'm referring to a song that's a little more recent and not nearly as sacred..."Successful" by Trey Songs. While some of the elements of the song are questionable the sheer popularity of the song demonstrates that many of the young people (and even middle aged and above) want to be successful. The question is, "How can this be done?" How can I take a life that may be filled with challenges and faced with opposition and use it to become successful? This was the question I considered when preparing what to discuss and four principles came to mind that are not particularly profound, and yet, if implemented may have a profound impact in one's life. Before I get into that let me first say that I realize that all of these efforts must be bathed in prayer and faith in God's ability to make them effective. But then again, as Christians shouldn't everything be? Moving right along.

1.) T:

The first practical thing that we can do to begin to see more success in our efforts is to actually think about what we're doing. I'm not talking about passively considering our actions, I mean to actually take time to reflect on our actions. Why do we do what we do? Why have we been following the path that we're following. This type of activity will help to prevent us from flying through the years on autopilot and waiting until we get to the wrong destination to change our route. Think about what you're doing (preferably before you do it).

2.) I:

The second practical thing that we can do to increase the probability of success in our efforts is to invest in our own success. Many times we will be the first to invest in our own success (well, we are second to God's investment in us but after that we're the first). People will often jump on the band wagon, so to speak, after they have already started to see returns on the investment that we have already made into our success. Many of the success stories that we see are the biproduct of personal investments in one's own success. So how can we invest in our own success? We can pray so that we may gain an understanding of what success for us looks like. Without prayer we can risk pursuing success that has been defined by someone other than our maker which means we may complete an objective and not be successful at all because we didn't fulfill our life's purpose. We can find a loving, life-giving church to grow in so that we can develop a godly and biblical concept of ourselves and what true success looks like. We can read books, articles, blogs and resources to increase our knowledge of our particular field and practices that will help us to excel. There are several ways to invest in your own success and you must be willing to invest in you before you can expect any one else to.

3.) M:

The third thing that we can do is make every moment count. Success is not usually one major breakthrough that overtakes a person unexpectedly. While this may occur occasionally, this is not the most frequent experience of the successful. Rather than waiting on one major successful instance, you could probably benefit from several meaningful moments working together to bring about success. You may not see your goal or life's calling as achievable in one swoop, and you're probably right, but if you take the steps of consistently wiring excellence into your daily routine and make the most of every day & every moment trusting that God has the ability to honor your diligence I believe that you'll be amazed by what God does through you. Thomas Edison once said that "The more I do the luckier I become." What he may have been suggesting is that the more he made the most of the moment the more he could expect success. God has a plan for every one of us and the more we see each day as an opportunity to play a part in that plan coming to pass the more we'll see that there is a method behind the madness that we've had to deal with because both the bad moments and the good moments can be used as meaningful moments if we're willing to make the most of them.

4.) E:

The last thing that we can do to press toward success in whatever God has been calling us to do is to evaluate our efforts. I know you want to be successful but when is the last time that you evaluated your efforts in that pursuit? When is that last time you evaluated your productivity at work? When is the last time you evaluated your own study habits? When is the last time you evaluated the way you spend your money? Taking time to evaluate your efforts helps to determine if you have a healthy dream or if you are just suffering from a delusion. Success isn't automatic and it's not just going to overtake you one day. You must be willing to constantly "Take heed to yourself" to see if you have areas in your life that could be improved. This principle is so significant that Jesus shared a parable instructing us to examine ourselves before we begin to examine others (Take the plank out of your eye--> Matthew 7:5). Examine your efforts to see what has been working. Stick with the habits that work and scrap the habits that haven't.

If we will be willing to Think about what we're doing, Invest in our own success, Make the most of every moment and Evaluate our efforts I'm convinced that it's only a matter of T.I.M.E. before we see what the book of Joshua calls "good success".
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Keep pressing!


My pastor (Bishop Edward H. Stephens, Jr.) has many great sayings. Having him as a great source of guidance in my life has afforded me the opportunity to hear them on a regular basis. In fact, his impact has been so pervasive in my life that I can almost hear what he would say in various instances as I encounter them. One saying that continuously comes to mind is the phrase, "Keep pressing." I can honestly say that I have heard him say this hundreds of times. Granted, many of these were not audible statements but rather memories within that resurfaced in my mind right when I needed to here it. This simple phrase, "Keep pressing." has been a lasting source of encouragement for me so I wanted to share it with you. Just as Ricky Bobby held on to the phrase, "If you ain't first you're last" in the movie Talladega Nights, I have held on to the phrase "Keep pressing" as I have encountered challenges that have made me want to give up along the way. As a result of this tendency to keep pressing I have made a fantastic discovery. Things tend to work together for your good if you don't give up (Didn't God say something about that in Romans 8:28? Check it out.). I have found that most of success is wrapped up in one's ability to continue to stand in the face of adversity. Eventually, if you resist the enemy long enough, it flees.

What does that have to do with you? Perhaps you've been thinking about throwing in the towel on your marriage and have been wondering what to do. Maybe you've been considering giving up on the pursuit of a life-long goal and have been wondering if now is the time to quit. Maybe you have been depressed about the job market, your financial standing, your children's conduct or your professional and/ or personal prospects; what do you do when you want to give up? Two words... KEEP PRESSING! Keep pressing through the pain. Keep pressing through the problems. Keep pressing through the difficulty. Keep pressing through the discouragement. If you can find the courage to continue to trust God and keep pressing forward in faith that His plans will come to pass in your life, sooner or later you will see why the opposition wanted you to give up along the way. After all, the only way to prevent you from seeing the peace of God in your marriage and the provision of God in your life is to try to convince you to stop pressing toward it because the Word of God says that, "you shall reap if you faint not." So it makes sense that the enemy would want you to faint (give up, become passive, etc) because that's the only way to prevent you from possessing what God promised you. You may be thinking, "Jessie, but you don't know what I'm up against." You're right...but what I do know is that if you can overcome the temptation to be weary in well doing "you shall reap if you faint not." (Galatians 6:9) So KEEP PRESSING!
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Hey Church! What are we doing?


I truly enjoy the courses that I'm taking this semester. One of my favorites is a class that discusses the role of the pastor. Believe me when I tell you that there should be an A/V booth in the back of the classroom selling Cd's of the lectures. Good stuff! It's always a thrilling experience because either my classmates or professor is sure to say something profound on a weekly basis. This week's "words of wisdom" came in the form of a testimony from a classmate who had just returned from a mission trip to Guiana. She shared how the Christians there had such a pure passion for God that they would worship for hours in the dark (due to the lack of electricity) and with bats & bugs flying through the loosely constructed building. The pastor of the local church had to leave home on Fridays to travel on foot, by boat and by taxi to the church on the banks of the river. The parishioners would literally travel by boat through piranha infested waters to worship God together. Talk about dedication!

As I listened to her experience with the worshipers in the wilderness I couldn't help but wonder what in the world we're doing here. Here... where we often complain about having to stay in church for more than an A & B selection and an entertaining message. Here... where we fuss about sound systems, room temperatures and dress codes. Here...where we don't want to travel through traffic to worship together even though the other drivers on the road probably wouldn't try to bite us if we got out of our cars at the wrong time (Although, I can only speak for Memphis). But really, what are we doing here? Are we truly following Christ? Are we truly attempting to get people to see how amazing and awesome He is and how He deserves our undivided attention? Are we more focused on becoming the Church than convincing people to start coming to our church. I honestly don't know; or maybe just don't want to admit the answer. The truth is that we can all learn something from the worshipers in the wilderness and while we pray for them in our prayer vigils and on our missions trips perhaps God is moving on their hearts to pray for us as well.
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